An Ancient Visit : Cambodia ~ Siem Reap

 

 

“What is it so nice about it that made you visited the place twice ?!”

Well, it was a mere coincidence …

The first time I set foot onto the soil of Siem Reap, Cambodia was in year 2007. It was a very memorable trip. It was our first group trip among close friends with their spouses/girlfriends. It was truly a joint effort from all. We communicated via emails (mostly) and phone calls to determine the dates, flight details, accommodation and places of interest and everyone was co-operative and enthusiastic about it. There were no arguments about it and everyone was willing. In summary, everyone gave both thumbs up about the trip and enjoyed it very much. Sadly, it was also the last trip we had together with our dearly departed friend.

The second time I was there, it was a company’s trip in year 2008. Again, I did enjoyed myself though the places we went were almost the same. But, the atmosphere was different compared to the first.

What can I say about this place !!!

It is truly a place that I believe many will not hesitate to re-visit it again.

If you are the typical traveler who enjoys traveling to modern places where you enjoy the tall skyscrapers, modern infrastructures and shopping venues, this will probably bores you to death and I would suggest for you to skip it.

However, if you are one who enjoys the laid back, not worried about the non-classy places, backpacker or someone who enjoys photographing, you will probably enjoy the experiences the place has to offer. And hopefully, you would enjoy what I have to say.

I am not here to tell grandmother stories or make comparison but to provide some useful information (hopefully) about the place which fascinated me with it’s rich history and amazement of the ‘technology’ they had during the olden days. I was really impressed with how they manage to build such sites without the modern technologies we are having today. It really shows their wisdom and determination. Something which I think the modern societies lack.

Siem Reap is one the most important archaeological sites in South-East Asia where the Angkor Archaeological Park is located. It is the main attraction and contains the magnificent remains of the different capitals of the Khmer Empire, from the 9th to the 15th century which include the famous Temple of Angkor Wat, Angkor Thom and the Bayon Temple with its countless sculptural decorations. Each of these temples has its own unique architectural design and history. Furthermore, it has been inscripted as part of UNESCO World Heritage since 1992. And one of the New Seven Wonders of the World ? Can someone verify that ?

Siem Reap is quite laid back and all in all a pleasant place to stay while touring the temples. However, with the rampaging hordes of tourist flooding in from every corner of the world and the streams of people going in and out of the temple, it is tough to get a picture of the temples in their serene setting. It gets tougher with the hordes charging in and snapping every spot they could get their hands on.

As business has increased due to the boom in tourism, so have the prices, which are often double or more what you would pay elsewhere. But that is common isn’t it ? Anyway, it is still relatively cheaper than some other destination.

But be sure to pick up your free Siem Reap Angkor Visitors Guide and the equally free and useful Siem Reap Pocket Guide from the airport, your hotel/guesthouse. It contains lots of info on Siem Reap and Angkor, including hotel/bar/restaurant/shop info, travel info, maps, etc.

You may explore the place by your own or by tour. The choices are ample. You may take a bicycle ride, a tuk-tuk or tour bus. Just make sure that if you are on your own, the entrance fee to the temples are on your own. Would suggest the 3 days ticket which cost USD30, if not mistaken. This will allow you sufficient time to explore without rushing and you won’t regret it.

Do keep in mind that Siem Reap, especially Angkor has no / limited tarred road. So, if you opted to travel in the motorcyclist taxi driver @ ’tuk tuk’ or by bicycle, be prepared to inhale a big load of dust by the end of the day. But it’s worth it because you get to experience the splendours of an ancient civilisation.

Places to visit :-

 

1.   South Gate of Angkor Thom – This is usually your first destination. Both side of the bridge is sculptured with a row Gods and Devils statutes. Unfortunately, many of the statues were beheaded by mercenaries and looted for its value. As for the South Gate, the top is a four faced Buddha whilst at the bottom, a bus could well pass through. It’s that huge !

 

 2.   Bayon – This will usually be your second destination. You will be fascinated with the remains. In year 2008, many of the places on the site were ‘under construction’. The Government of Japan has actually funded the restoration / preservation of the temple due to its deteriotation.

 

 

 

 

Don’t be surprise to see her around. She is one of the many tour ‘keeper’ which ensure that visitors behave. lolz …

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you were to stand at a certain angle, you can see that all three buddha statues are parallel in a line.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

These are what you will be missing … if you are not there …

 

 3.   The Elephants Terrace and Leper King Terrace - This is within walking distance from Bayon and as you passby, you will be able to the ruins of another temple under restoration and some ritual sites.

 

 

4.   Angkor Wat – It would be virtually a sin to not pay a visit to Angkor Wat in Siem Reap. It can take days to visit all the temples and shrines in Angkor Wat thoroughly as there is a lot to see and explore. The intricate carving just amazes every visitor, and it just take your breath away with the thoughts of thousands of artisans and labourers behind every stone and pebbles.

 

 

If you would like to enjoy the sunrise, you have to be there between 3 – 4 am. But it is very well worth getting out of bed for !  Trust me, you won’t regret it. Caution ! It can be tough with the hordes charging in and snapping every spot the could get on their hands.

 

It is also a nice spot for wedding photos.

 

 Above : Bridemaids getting ready.

 

 

Right : A bride and her groom getting ready for their wedding photos taken in their tradisional costume.

 

 

 

 

 

 

5.   Ta Phrom – What else can be said ? This is the scene where Angeline Jolie shot Tomb Raiders !

It’s amazing to see huge trees growing over it !

 

 

 

 

It’s an eye opener to see the huge trees growing over it !

 

 

 

 

 

6.   Bakhaeng Hill – While others may opt to witness the sunset on the hill, you may try to go for the sunrise as it provides breathtaking view with it’s serenity and tranqulity that it has to offer.  Trust me, you will enjoy it !

 

 

Or if you prefer, which is usually part of your tour program, is to witness the sunset on the hill. The hike up the hill and the thoughts of coming down may be tiring but it is worth it.

 

 

 

 

7.   Tonle Sap Lake and the floating village

 

Here, you will witness the lives of people actually living on the lake. Their homes are on the water itself. Convenience to move your homes as you might say.

Be prepared to face the extreme poverty that you may encounter. Children as young as four years old are out begging visitors. Sitting in their sampai in the middle of the lake, these people will actually come ‘attacking’ you the moment they saw your tour boat.

 

 

They will hook onto your boat and manage to climb in and out even though the lake is deep with strong ripples hitting from every direction and the boat sails through. Some will pester you to buy fruit or drinks from them.

 

 

 

A word of advise. Be courteous at your own risk, tho.

 

No joke ! There is a floating school and a floating basketball court.

 

 

8.   Banteay Srei - This place is located slightly on the outskirt. The journey to the place is rather bumpy.

If not mistaken, this is a temple / palace built by the women of the olden age. Here, you will be able to see the close up of the details sculptures which have withstand the sun and rain for hunderd of years.

 

 

Impressive.

 

 

 

9.  Silk Farm - Here, you are able to witness the process of how silk is produced.

 

 

10.   Le’D Artisan – It’s located in the city. Here, you are able to see the stone carving are done. The products are rather expensive but is good in quality.

 

 

 

 

11.   Cultural cum Dinner show - There is a restaurant which serves international buffet dinner and after the dinner, a walk in the park to the stage where it is a free seating area. The show is interesting as it epic the history of the Angkor empire but unfortunately, it was in Cambodian language but I guess you could more or less make out the history.

 

12.   Old Market / Night Market – Woman’s paradise. You can practically get anything is here. It’s like our ‘pasar malam’. Most of the things sold here are souveniers such as paintings, crafts and clothings. Must always bargain ! And it all starts with USD1.00. The place is always crowded with tourists bargaining for items in a “2 dollar shop” manner and it can be entertaining at times. Compared to some other tourist spots, the sellers don’t really curse you if you ended up not buying so long as it is not excessive.

 

 

13.   Pub Street - After a whole day of sightseeing and walking, nothing beats a relaxing dinner and drinks. The pub street is where all the nightlife is. The road is closed to traffic every night to allow the night life to get on with it. The Red Piano will be the most famous amongst all. Its where Angelina Jolie hangs out. Nonetheless, the place is full of pubs and restaurants where most international food is available. If you would like, you can even try their local restaurants like what we did, it does taste delicious apart being cheap. Worth it !

14.   Others – There are many other places that were not mentioned here (like the modern pagodas – Wat Dam Nak, the local village, the waterfall etc) that one can explore casually while in Siem Reap. Do hang around and ask the locals who will be able to recommend you.

Though it is kinda lengthy, hope that it is interesting for all. Bon Voyage and Enjoy.

Yasmin Ahmad (1958 – 2009)

An extraordinary lady of Malaysia. The video above says it all.

To be honest, I don’t really know who Yasmin Ahmad was until the news broke out about her being warded into hospital etc.

As I searched through the internet only did I realise that … gosh .. I have seen these advertisements and I have always enjoyed watching them. And I even mentioned to my friend before that the advertisements are really good. It is always touchy and meaningful. Muhibah. Colourless.

Even if one watches it a dozen times, it is still very meaninful and sometimes, it does make your eyes teary. It actually knock some senses into you.

She is really an amazing person. Though I don’t know her personally, but her works speak for all.

Kak Yasmin Ahmad, I salute you !!! God bless you and rest in peace. Alfatihah .

Thank you for your contributions to the nation through your meaningful work. And I hope that everyone can actually learn from your work.

Cow Head

 

This is just plain, utterly foolish ! Samseng !

No brainy. No offence to others but I think your brains are worse than the innocent cow.

Can  you imagine people who are supposingly to be matured for their age to act in this way ?! I know that sometimes maturity does not come with age but this ?!?! Am disgusted !

I do understand that the residents may be unhappy with the relocation of the Hindu temple as it may cause inconvenience and etc like traffic jams during festive season, but is making such protest necessary ??? Come on la … By comparison, how many mosque are there ? Did you see the Chinese or Hindus protesting about it ? Not to mention the cars that were parked all over the place especially prayers time and if you have a closer look, you will notice that not a single one is summoned. But no one made a fuss out of it ! Why ? Was it due to respect ? or was it because everyone knows that nothing will be done ? You determine it yourself…

This incident is making everyone silly and embarass in the eyes of the world ! It is making a mockery of the country ! How it once boast of being a multinational, multicultural country which is the envy of many other countries has now turns into a nightmare. Some foreigners are even afraid to Visit Malaysia because of the recent turmoils. Have heard of stories about some foreigners asking Malaysians abroad about the recent caning issue of the model. They were afraid that they too would be caned for drinking in public. And we are not talking about people whose religious prohibits them from taking alcoholic drinks.

I can’t remember how the conversation came about but I do remember during the youth exchange program, I was trying to explain the different cultures in Malaysia but yet when I mentioned “we Malays … we Chinese … we Indians ..”, I was stopped. “why is it that you keep saying we Malaysa … we Chinese … we Indians … ? Aren’t all of you Malaysians ?” The Aussie student girl has this annoyed face which made me speechless. This incident has been with me since then … and reminded me all this while. I never thought I will say this, but if a foreigner at the age 15-16 at that time can actually make such comment, so why can’t we Malaysians do that ??!! 

Everyone knows what Muslims are prohibited from having non-halal food especially pork. The Hindus do not take beef as they considered them as sacred animals. The Chinese ? Basically nothing stops them ! Lol ! Yet, to say that “For Malays, a cow is synonymous with stupidity and not synonymous with religious matters. It is not as a serious offence as portrayed,” is NONSENSE ! To the person who said that, do you think everyone is stupid like you ?! The real reason or motivation, we all don’t know ! Don’t we ?

To say that the noises coming from the temple will disturb you and your prayers seem to be a lame excuse ! But, has one considered that the prayers coming from the loud speaker of a mosque ? I don’t think that anyone really made a complain or protest about it right ? 

On the right are some of our “heroes”. (courtesy from the Star Publication)

And can you imagine this ? The President of a Malay NGO are willing to provide legal cousels to our heroes and to take the case up as a “jihad” ? or any war undertaken in the name of Islam against unbelievers or backsliders.

errmmm … does that mean that we don’t have a choice of our own in choosing and embracing whatever religious we are comfortable in ? Of course with the exception for some.

But to declare Jihad ? It’s that a little too much ? If it is not as serious as one potrayed, then what is the fuss ? are you trying to inflict hatred amongst us ?

Careful ! Declaring Jihad may get you into trouble with one of the superpowers of the world. You may or may not be termed as a terrorist.

Or do we want a repeat of the nation’s black history …. 13th May … (though I was not born yet :p)

Thank god that not everyone is like ‘them’. It shows there are still people who can think sanely and with courtesy despite difference in skin colour and religious.

Ini pula what our Home Minister has to say ….

“Tindakan kebijaksanaan”

“Sayang Negara” wor …

“Waras” kononnye ….

“Not a big protest”

“Not to ignite racial anger” – yeah .. just like when kissing the keris

Sorry sir ! No offence to you but I do think that as a former Education Minister and now, the Home Minister, the choice of sentences used should be more carefully and intelligently said so as not to be interpreted wrongly … you know .. “when right becomes wrong” …

Nope ! I am not politically motivated. I am not even a registered voter cos of the ding dong that has been going on. And, Iam not a prejudice. I am not condemning the religious of  one but I just felt that it is not proper for one to disrespect another’s religious. I don’t recall any proper religious ever taught us to do that. To me, all religious are beautiful so long as it teaches good. So why can’t we just live peacefully and respect each other’s religious and get on with our lives ?!

I am not here to ignite racial anger or protest. I am thinking waras-ly.

I am proud to say that I am a Malaysian but I am ashamed be one with the turn of events in recent times.

One Malaysia, Satu Bangsa ! It seems …

http://art-harun.blogspot.com/2009/09/of-islam-churches-and-temples.html

http://harismibrahim.wordpress.com/2009/09/07/the-beautiful-malay/

http://thestar.com.my/columnists/story.asp?file=/2009/9/3/columnists/bravenewworld/4632278&sec=bravenewworld

Battleground Ipoh

What a joke !

It’s like a never ever ending drama taken out from a storyline.

Imagine, the average age of the so called people’s representative which is above 40 years old acting their second childhood going after one another just like during schooling time. Just to be in power.

One year after the General Election, they are still at it. Struggling to obtain power to be the rakyat’s representative which I do believe are getting fed up with nothing done. Even the authors of the updates on the battleground wrote it like a comic.

Once famed Taiwan parliamentary assemblies where opposition parties going after one another can now be seen in our own backyard. What happened to the democracy and the people’s outcry for better living etc ….

One may argue that without being able to control, the state government is unable to effectively work for the rakyat but isn’t this being too much …. ?

When will be gonna end ?

Let’s stay tune for more of the action pack drama … though seldom watch movies, but this seems to be an interesting comedy movie which should be a box office to the laughing world ….

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2009/5/7/nation/20090507073621&sec=nation

EARTH HOUR 2009

Some said that Earth Hour is a mere publicity stunt will all the celebrities, media and corporations coming up in support that fails at the very essence of sustaining a more environmental friendly lifestyle whilst others argued that it is to increase the awareness of climate change and to encourage leaders to agree and act on a solution before it is too late. Both are of different opinion but with a good intent.

Regardless of what it is said, let us put aside the differences and do something about it. There is no harm by switiching off the electricity for a mere one hour (8.30pm – 9.30pm tonight) yeah .. kinda late Moreover, think of the electricity bill we can be saving lolz ..

We, mankind, the tenant of Earth has been celebrating the developments and the success of mankind which one day, it will finally brings to our downfall / destruction. What is the used of matured thinking when our heart and soul are still young and naive when it comes to this matter ?!

The ozone layer is thinning.
The forest is reducing. Without it, is like slave.
The air is being polluted. Without it, is like without life.
The sea will soon be exhausted / over flooded. Without it, is like vanished.

Our unlucky earth is suffering from the corruption, oppression and obsession of mankind as it gradually vanished. Who will see it ? Who will realise it amongst us ? Will it be too late ?

It will be a time when all we can show to the generations to come are merely nostalgic photos where we once had our childhood playground.

So let us put our hands together in support of the Earth Hour as an initial step and subsequently think of what we can do more to sustain a more environmentally lifestyle !

Politics my ar*e !

It has been a year since the March 8 2008 (a prosperous date ?) general election. The BN coalition led government has once again formed a federal government like they have been for the last 51 years even though they were unable to win two third of the rakyat’s vote. Doesn’t it meant anything ? The rakyat want changes !

Trailing closely behind was PR which consist of the coalition of oppositions with different agendas just like BN. Both without a concrete and unite solution to the benefits of the rakyat. Even though they benefit from the voting made by the rakyat.

The year has seen changes in leadership of the BN components whilst PR has a new leader. A couple of by a few by-elections. Practically everyday, some crap political issues or political motivated agendas can be seen / heard making the headlines on the local news. Aren’t you people tired of it ? It seems like there is nothing more important than the on-going slaughter and accusations made by both parties. Total drama or what ?!

Longer than the soap opera ! Guess the likes of Knots Landing, The Beauty and the Bold (or was it the other way ?) and other operas were nothing compared to the sometimes heartening, at times tragic, occasionally entertaining, but mostly tiresome and boring episodes of the never ending stories.

Let’s see …

1. The detaining of RPK under the ISA for voicing his thoughts through his blog;
2. The leader of PR being charged with sodomy for the second time while attempting to form a government on September 16 2008 which failed and did not materialised;
3. Altantuya’s murder case;
4. The leading party of the BN coalition having an internal political crisis and having a pre-arranged handover leadership;
5. Crossovers, money politics;
6. The controversial change of government in Perak and the subsequent developments;
7. The summons, the court orders, the legal suits;
8. Protest, protest and more protest !
9. And much more ……..

If you don’t like, just make a police report then !. As if our country which is already shortage of decent honest law enforcement personnel has nothing better to do than to investigate all the nonsense while the crime rate is shooting up the roof by the day.

Still not satisfied ? Report to MACC. Otherwise, just gather a group of people and do a protest. Make a memorandum !

The situation has been a laughing stock in the eyes of the world ! A country which once boasts to be a harmony, multinational and multicultural country has now been divided because of some nonsense political uncertainty. Am sure many of us have been asked by our friends from overseas on what is going on. Can you actually give a sound reply ? Would you be able to give a concrete explaination without making a fool out of yourself ?

While the world is facing credit crunch and global economy is on the downturn, politics should be the least most important agenda in everyone’s mind. Yet, these jokers are having a go at each other, competing to deliver their promise of change instead of forming policies to help the rakyat !

They should be guilty as charged in contributing to the instability of investment and economic growth of the country. Economics 101 would have taught us that political stability plays a factor in the confidence of the investors for the growth of the country but it seems like we are moving backwards to Stone Age instead of 21st century.

Honestly speaking, can you remember when was the last time since the general election that your elected representative made some major changes / improvement / contribution which matter the most to your area ?

It’s all crap ! Bullsh*t ! Am sure that many of us have different views, thoughts and political parties that we support. The main reason being so was that we believe that our elected representatives / parties would contribute better than the other ! Yet, we are still able to sit together at a mamak stall to chat and mind our business as usual. So why can’t these elected representatives do the same ? Why can’t they put aside their differences and work together to provide a more meaningful gift to the citizens just like our forefathers when seeking for independence ?

What do they want from us ?! Are they too hunger with power ? Greed ? Selfishess ?

What actually does the rakyat benefited from all these crap ? For the past one year, nothing much has changed except for political turmoil. It’s about time we stood up and ask our representatives to stop all the nonsense and concentrate on doing what they were elected for ! We want improvements ! We want better living ! We want better welfare ! Not some unnecessary burden / at the expense of the well being of the taxpayers just to fund your silly campaigns when it can be channeled for better usage !

It is no surprise why our country is shortage of expertise. Why many have opted not to return to the motherland and instead settling in abroad despite the calls for them to return to help develop the country. Could you blame them for doing so ? Do believe that many amongst us would do the same if we had the opportunity to do so. Have we not learned anything from the past 51 years of independence ? Can we not shrugged off the “’First class infrastructure, third world mentality” ?

Come on ! Let’s not get narrow minded and being too self centered ! Let us learn for the past just like what we were taught during history classes. Whilst each other country is seemingly looking at plans to withstands the onslaught on the economy, the uncertainty of the political scenarios are causing a dysfunctional federal / state government in deciding important basic issues which are affecting the man in the street who are worried whether enough food can be put on the table.

It is time to wake up ! Time for truce ! Set aside the differences and work together in making a better nation !

The above views are merely personal two cents opinion and do not support any specific political party in any ways. In fact, with the circus in town, it is not worthwhile to be a registered voter because it won’t change anything in the current situation.

Life is Unpredict@ble

I am seriously not sure of what is going on !!

Here I am, between reviewing some work and waiting .. writing on this blog….

Life can be so unpredictable. Yes I have been saying that to everyone, anyone but never have I had something to write about. But now, it just spurn me to blog.

Life can never be easy. It has never been easy or courteous at times. Until lately, the daily ups and down were merely part and parcel of life. That was before I felt uneasy as if something is different. I don’t know what. Probably because I am tired. Probably because I am exhausted with the continuous late nights till the wee hours in office. How I wish it was out enjoying myself. Hell NO ! I stayed back most of the time working including weekends. Try to meet datelines. Yeah … I know. No life … workaholic isn’t it ? What to do ? Can’t really complain. May it’s because I am stressed out with my work indirectly because of the peer pressure that it has brought me to think of what is life is all about.

Right from the beginning of year 2009. I thought it’s was a good time to forget about the past (especially the bad memories, and a fresh start). A new year, a new beginning. Starting with the new year resolution. I had it all going well for me. An unexpected promotion and increment eventhough it has only been a year since I join my current firm. A bonus which I can’t complain since everyone is talking about the current economy downturn, recession, pay cut, retrenchment and etc .. let’s just say it was barely sufficient for me to pay of all the debtors since it is also pantang to owe people $$$ over the Chinese New Year … superstitious ya ? well, most of it except of the devilish credit cards. It was quite painful to actually to receive a bonus and most of it was gone within couple of hours ! But at least I could console myself by telling my soul that I won’t have worry about owing ‘someone’. At least I don’t have to think about it anymore. At least now I can be a little relieved and have some extra cash to spare just in case of rainy days.

Then there is the dreadful phone call at the end of the fourth day of CNY. A call which I never wished to received. The news from a close friend that he had met with an accident and the frantic rush between interstate only to see the dying moments of her beloved wife. Someone whom I knew for 13 years. Someone I am closed to and fond of. Someone who is always cheerful and lively only to be taken away to be by God’s side. They were still young. Younger than me (not that I am very old) yet one has lost her life while the other still feeling miserable and guilty for it. The next couple of days were spent miserably until the funeral before I was back @ work. Probably because it will take the sadness out of my mind but couldn’t stop feeling helpless that I was unable to accompany him. Worried that he will do some drastic actions.

It was not a good start to work as well. There was the rush to get the things done as a client insists on meeting the dateline eventhough certain documents were not statutory ready. And I had to meet a Datuk just to listen to him whine about how we should apologise to him for making a mistake and what would have happened should it be one of his staff for the second time. No doubt it was a mistake done (done by former colleague which no longer around) but it was harmless, really ! Just unlucky that it was currently placed under my portfolio and I have yet to even had a look into it. So what was the big issue until he demanded a letter of apology and was considering legal actions only to be tamed by an associate partner. Guess he just wanted to show his ‘power’.

Back into the office and more work were stacked up. So there I was, completely drowned by the workload and trying to complete it as soon as possible only to be met by another dateline on the last day of this month. Though it may be nice that I am able to stick to the new year’s resolution of cutting down on gulp .. gulp .. sessions, but it was awful to be glued to my work desk most the time. And the works of the team members were not helping. Instead of reviewing their work, I had to do their work at times, look at their faces and setting/planning the timeline for them only to be agitated and frustrated that they practically not taking things seriously. In the end, it costs me a bad impression with the bosses. This probably explains why I am moody for the last couple of weeks. Maybe I am asking to much of them ? But I don’t think so ….

It is now 4 a.m and still waiting for the final work out to be produced. Don’t know how much amendments need to be made before it is finalised. For sure, it must be out by today ! Otherwise, the client will blame it on us and there goes my reputation on the line, again. It is something which I have began to hate ! Afterall, what was all the planning for ? If I was too ‘military’ with them, I probably going to be isolated. But if I was lenient with them, this is what I suffers for the freedom given to them. What else could be worse ?! I guess my previous employment had somehow prepared me (whether directly or indirectly) for this.

After this week, you would probably think that things will probably gets better. That would be nice. Unfortunately, it can be foreseeable. Another tight datelines for the months of March and April. I guess I practically won’t get any sleep out of it. Not forgetting that the trip in early April has been cancelled because a friend of mine is unable to make it. Which reminds me of the horror of calling Air Asia for god knows how many times only to be told different things each time. Each time, additional costs will be incurred apart from those mentioned each time. Worse still, due to our current upgrading, we apologise for the interruptions and inconvenice caused. Which got me really fed up because I got cut off a couple of times. In fact, they have been doing the upgrading for so long (since last year) that never had my query being reverted back to me back in months. And all this because they cancelled our original departure flight because of …… the closure of the airport. Come on !! If there will be closure, why did Air Asia allowed booking in the first place ? Well, after the much headache caused with communicating between Air Asia and my friends, we have decided to purchase new flight tickets. Only to find out that it is MUCH cheaper than changing the dates which cost up to RM1k++ ! It now cost us RM464 for 4 person for the new air tickets compared to the promotion price of RM1,616 when it was booked 9 months ago. As we say it, burned.

Well, am looking forward to this weekend. At least, by then the dateline would have passed and a short rest over the weekend before starting fresh for the months to come would probably help !

“We work to live or we live to work ?”

Tragic Day ~ 30.01.2009

The tone and the speech on the phone at about 11.30pm @ 29.01.2009 suggested he was unstable. Blurred with his surrounding from a person who is always full with self confidence with whatever he does was worrying. Triggering something back.

Without thinking twice, took the keys to the car and drove up to Tampin/Melaka with 2 friends as requested. The mind was thinking and worried with what is happening when the caller mentioned that he has met with an accident. Normally, he won’t. He was unaware of his whereabout let alone which hospital he was heading.

Racing against time while concentrating on the driving skills on the bended roads heading to the destination like the F1 night circuit of Singapore, the heart could not stop worrying and preparing for the worse and hoping that nothing bad has happened.

Arrived at Tangkak and was told she was in Tangkak Hospital. A quick dash there only to find his parents waiting outside. Was told that she was still in the critical ward being rescued. Hoping that she will be alrite, we made a move heading towards Melaka Hospital where he was warded. Along the way, saw the painful site. Stopped and had a look only to be devasted by the scene. Praying hard that both of them will safely get through.

By the time we arrived at the Melaka Hospital, he was bandaged on the face. Nothing has yet to be done. Tried consoling him only to be told that the doctor has made a call to the Tangkak Hospital and he insisted to be there.

Another quick run back to Tangkak Hospital only to see her last moments. Remembered clearly that I was asking the nurse how she is .. only to be told that she is in critical conditions. Took 5 steps back to her bed only to see that the beeping of her heartbeats between 77-80+ stopped. The doctor has shut down the life support system ! Fearing for the worse, I headed back to the nurse. She could say to refer to the doctor. The doctor which was standing in front of me only had a couple of words for me. “She has passed away”. Time of death : 02.15am @ 30th January 2009.

I can’t think anymore when I heard the words. Eyes were red as I walked out of the unit to take a breather. Calming myself down, I made the calls to our usual group of friends. Tears were flowing from my eyes as I told them the bad news. I could’nt help myself ! I doubt I could understand myself when uttered the words “she is no longer around”, “she has gone” “she didn’t make it” each time I mentioned that. I don’t know why.

After calming down, only did we got him to get a x-ray before sending him to Pantai Hospital in Melaka only to be told that the injury on the face needs a specialist and was recommended to Mahkota Medical Center. It was 5am when we arrived at the Accident & Emergency Ward. Pleaded with the doctor to have the surgery done asap so that he could be discharged the soonest. The whole time I was with him as he slept calmly as walked out couple of times to calm myself ..

While dozing off on the seats outside the ward only to be awaken by a phone call, was back into his room. Room809A only to see him dressed to be discharged and was making calls .. crying … I couldnt help it. Walked out to arrange for the medical bill and after some persuasion only was it out ! It was crazee ! Less than 8 hours and the bill came up to RM3.7k ++. Damn !!!

The next thing was to arrange for someone to fetch us. My friends have driven my car back as one has to work while another need to pack and head back to Singapore. It was suffering and emotional to see him like that as he was eager to get out. Cut the story short .. we were at the mortuary in Tangkak Hospital at about 2pm. Most of the group arrived in the next hour. With due respect, this is what I like about my group. We are there for each other. One was in JB but drove up to Melaka to see him only to be stucked in the “nothing new” traffic jam and told to meet at the mortuary. One was in Penang and immediately booked a flight back to JB. Another was in KL. Drove back to hometown to drop someone before heading to Melaka also only to be told to meet at the mortuary and back to KLIA to fetch ‘her’ sifu before heading down to JB where the funeral will be held.

With all the ceremony done, she was brought back to JB whilst the rest of us headed separate ways only to meet in JB for the funeral in the next few days.

~ May she rest in peace. You will be greatly missed. Will cherish you for a long time until we meet again ~

8th January 2009 ~ 1st Anniversary

8th January 2009 marked the first anniversary of me joining a new firm. What do you expect ? Wedding ? Relationship ? Plz ….

It may be just another ordinary in work life …. But I though I should write something about it !

Time passes quickly and I am already in the current firm for a year. Reflecting back the 365 days spent in the company, much has happened. The ups, down, left, right … it was no doubt a total new experience. This firm is nothing like the former company. They are a bunch of young, dynamic, intelligent entrepreneurs … my bosses and friends … have known them since my former company but not that close. But they are up and coming rising starz. The feeling they have been portraying are rather warmth , easy going and treats the employees well. Do you come across where most of the lunches are paid by your boss ? The company trip ? The welfare etc ? But at times, it felt like people are taking advantage of it !

Remember somewhere it early 2008 when they approached me to join them. However, looking at the peak period and the faces of my ex-staffs, I rejected them in a way … smirk… Yet again, when I tendered my resignation in last quarter of 2008, they heard about it and immediately offered me. This time, insisting that I were “to get back” to them …. He he ..contradicts to what others had to say … i.e me leaving the firm for them … which can be frustrating as well ! But what to do, just have to live with it.

With a crew cut hair and not knowing what I am being lured into, I stepped into the office at 9.30am as I was told on 08.01.2009. The bosses were not there. But the staffs were expecting me ! Some people must just mention to them. Sitting me at my partition, I looked at the notebook, stationeries and namecard which were all prepared. Caught me by surprise tho … but nothing bad to comment. The next few days were spend familiarising with the environment and portfolios … so there I was .. the start of a new beginning.

To tell what has going on for the past one year would probably takes up a long time … hopefully, it won’t take up another year to write about it.

Another thing which I felt was that at times, I still do miss my old firm ! don’t have to blink your eyes … nope .. am not referring to the firm (as in THE firm) but rather the times while working there ! The good times, the bad times, the proud and satisfying moments, long nights, the friends I have made etc … so much going on at that time. The fun, humour, challenges, friendship … all of it ! yeah .. say I am crazy that after spending 7 years there and I still miss it …

One day … maybe just one day when the mood arrives, shall tell …

Back to Work !~!

Back to working LIFE !!

Was out of office from 25th December 2008 to 5th January 2009 and had actually planned to do some rest, running some errands, planning for deadlines and vacations and visiting before a foreseeable hectic schedules… And … as usual, the plan didn’t work out !

On Christmas Day, was driving back home to attend grandma’s 80th birthday after some sober sleep. Something which was unavoidable. No matter how dislike it is to meet up with uncles, aunties and cousins who treat you like you owe them somethings or their constant bragging and selfishness or even the running around of nieces and nephews as if they were not brought up with good manner whilst their parents were enjoying their food (kids nowadays) , it is still respectful to be there. Grandma has always been one of the most respected and loved person close to the heart. Someone who adores and is adored no matter what some relatives may be saying. After the gathering, went to grab a drink with sibling. Seldom had the chance and it was nice. Then it was back to the sack.

Boxing day was spend hanging around and was kinda bored except online and checking some work. Was up in KL on 27-29. Parents had a wedding dinner and a function to attend. So, being the host, accompany them around for food and some shopping. Not forgetting the time spend waiting for them to finish the dinner and trying to find the venue for the function. Didnt really had much rest. It was back to back so as to speak.

Was back home on 29th and spend the next 2 days doing nothing. Practically, woke up, online, lunch, online, dinner, online and sleep. That was the daily routine except for spending some time running errands and loitering in friend’s shop. No wonder it is always known as the season for gaining weight. Bored and exhausted cos of the late nights. Was it mentioned that a friend invited to place where hair saloon was not a hair saloon ? Apart from that, the unexpected event was the departure of a friend’s dad. It was rather sudden so paid him visit to him. Though hate the idea of attending funerals or rather ‘pantang’ with it, it was still out of compassionate.

New year’s eve/new year celebration was spend at a mamak with some close friends chatting about the good old days before heading to JB. Met up a uni friend and had a long chat on new year’s day. Unlike in KL, it is a working day in Johor. One needs to get used to at first. The next two days were spent doing nothing except lazing around and do some surfing.

Was back at home on 3rd Jan 2009 to attend a friend’s wedding on 4th Jan 2009. The funny thing was, he sent an invitation via facebook stating the date of his wedding dinner but without a venue or time earlier. It was kinda funny but that’s what this bunch of friends are. They don’t plan till time is nearing. They are rather impromptu. Somethings which one got fed up at times.

The next day ? The long drive back to KL. Upon touch down only, was asked to meet a friend. Sigh … nothing done except having a migraine.

At the end of the leave, tired, exhausted and not getting any productve things that were initially planned done (except for some office work). Is this what it is termed as ? workaholic ?

Sigh .. after dragging out of the bed in the morning and stucked in the stupeed jam, trying to stay focus for the whole day with so many things on hand ! That’s when realised that had to smack out of days off and back to reality ! It’s 11pm now and still in the office ! One probably ask why ! Nothing like home sweet home.

Nevertheless, it is a relief to be back to the usual familiar sight. Work … LOL